I have run out of time this morning I have a few things I need to go do,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
this helps to create a welfare state of mind,,,,,,,,,,,,,,why should I go out bust my ### for minimum wage when I can sit at home and work the system and have just as much doing nothing,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
No need for name calling GG. We just have a difference of opinion. But it really is that simple to be making 50k by the time your in yours 30's. Especially in today's economy. I surpassed it in my mid 20's, 36 years ago. It just takes hard work, doing what your boss tells you, keep your mouth shut, look for opportunities and to have a skill that is in demand. I started my career as a welders helper in a shop that manufactured logging, mining and heavy construction equipment. I learned how to weld on my own time, became a certified welder then a fabricator, worked every hour of over time that I could get and eventually moved up in to management. All over a 13 year period.you guys make it sound so simple,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,when it's not,if what you say were the absolute gospel truth about work everyone would be making 50k by the time they were 30 years old,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,damn I wish you morons were right
No need for name calling GG. We just have a difference of opinion. But it really is that simple to be making 50k by the time your in yours 30's. Especially in today's economy. I surpassed it in my mid 20's, 36 years ago. It just takes hard work, doing what your boss tells you, keep your mouth shut, look for opportunities and to have a skill that is in demand. I started my career as a welders helper in a shop that manufactured logging, mining and heavy construction equipment. I learned how to weld on my own time, became a certified welder then a fabricator, worked every hour of over time that I could get and eventually moved up in to management. All over a 13 year period.
I think the real "morons" are those who are too lazy to achieve any real success in life, and then sit around whining about those of us who have.
The bottom line for me is that my family is healthy, happy and successful. And none of them have ever stepped foot in a college, but they did learn a strong work ethic at an early age.
I have seen college grads flipping burgers at Mickey Ds,,,,,,,,sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Well GG I don't give a shit about "Joe average". Just my family.do you even pay attention to what you say???????????????????
it is not all about what you have accomplished,
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I am talking about Joe Average who might not have finished High School
everyone does not have the same opportunities ,lack of education or they just are not able to get a higher paying job,or location and the jobs are just not there and then there are those who simply are not smart enough to do much more than be the cart boy at Walmart,,,it is all factors in on how far a person can go
employers take advantage of workers everyday if you quit there is always someone else who will take your place,,,it's why wages are low at so many places,you are easily replaced
now you will come back with something along the lines of,,,go finish school,or they are lazy or move to a different area,,,,
yup,,,,,,,,,,,,,you know it all
you have a answer for everything
Well GG I don't give a shit about "Joe average". Just my family.
No, I don't know everything, but I do know what it takes to be successful; hard work, commitment, no lazy gene and time. Yes, anyone can be successful in life if they apply themselves.
it's not anger,,,,,,,,,,it is disgust/disappointment in another person who at one time I liked and considered somewhat a friend here on DDP,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,nothing moreFoolishness. Your both talking past each other. GG, don't let anger influence your decisions, let it fuel your determination.
That's too bad GG. You and I have a difference in opinion, that's all. It shouldn't get anyone too upset. I don't dislike you because we have a different outlook on life. Like you've said before; nothing is going to change. I'm pretty sure that we both have more in common than not.it's not anger,,,,,,,,,,it is disgust/disappointment in another person who at one time I liked and considered somewhat a friend here on DDP,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,nothing more
there is nothing wrong with family first,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I just can't turn a cold heart to those less fortunate than myself,so much so that I between 45 to 65k in the hole ,,,,no regretsThat's too bad GG. You and I have a difference in opinion, that's all. It shouldn't get anyone too upset. I don't dislike you because we have a different outlook on life. Like you've said before; nothing is going to change. I'm pretty sure that we both have more in common than not.
I make no excuses that I put my family first. Always have and always will.
This give and take over salary is part of the market, though. If you wanted a particular individual to work with you on the ranch, you were going to have to pay him what he wanted to make. And if he wanted to work with you, he was going to have to accept what you were willing to pay. This happens everywhere on a larger scale to set pay rates for different jobs. I have noticed that in my current job market, we have to pay significantly more for even basic level workers because unemployment is so low that there are plenty of job options out there if they leave us. But in areas where unemployment is high, like where I used to live, pay rates were lower because unemployed people often have to accept any job that is offered, even if it doesn't pay as much as they want. But anywhere, in order to get the better employees, you often have to pay more because otherwise they will go elsewhere.Entry level jobs are just that, entry level. They aren't meant to pay a "living" wage. Even that is very subjective. What one person considers a living wage, another person wouldn't. And just how is it decided what a living wage is? No, the market and the employer decides (should) what wage to pay for each job. Not the government.
If a person wants a job that pays a living wage, then they need to learn the skills necessary to bring value to an employer. And put in the time. I never worked as a burger flipper before but I cant imagine why it would pay more than a very basic wage. Again, it's an entry level position and takes little to no skill to preform.
I've never worked for minimum wage in my life. When I first started working full time at 16 I never heard of minimum wage. My employer offered me a wage and I either accepted it or I didn't.
When I hired my current ranch hand I asked him what he wanted to be paid. We discussed it over a few beers and came to an agreement that we were both happy with. He's a hard worker and brings some needed skills, he also provides his own horse. And of course I pay him a lot more than some no skilled burger flipper with no ambition in life.
FYI GG, the guys who change my tires all get by pretty well on the salary that they agreed to work for.
it is not all about what you have accomplished,
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I am talking about Joe Average who might not have finished High School
everyone does not have the same opportunities ,lack of education or they just are not able to get a higher paying job,or location and the jobs are just not there and then there are those who simply are not smart enough to do much more than be the cart boy at Walmart,,,it is all factors in on how far a person can go
employers take advantage of workers everyday if you quit there is always someone else who will take your place,,,it's why wages are low at so many places,you are easily replaced
now you will come back with something along the lines of,,,go finish school,or they are lazy or move to a different area,,,,
yup,,,,,,,,,,,,,you know it all
you have a answer for everything
First my hat off to all of you making this a meaningful discussion. Not insulting one another (for the most part). Not going crazy. But having a good discussion.
GG, it's interesting how you are taking the worst-case scenario for everything. Doesn't finish school, can't move, not smart, … At some point you are just coming up with excuses. But yes, there are a small number of people who draw the short straw in life. Retarded orphan handicapped eunuchs will not have a great career path. That's ok, that's what local charities are there to help.
I think the difference is that you're looking at a worst-case scenario. For example you said 'joe average who might not have finished high school'. That is a contradiction. 80%+ of kids graduate high school, so the 'average joe' has a high school diploma. The average Joe is smart enough to do more than cart boy at Walmart.
Others (including me) are looking the majority who ARE capable but unwilling. Pick your reason, it doesn't matter. Stubborn, lazy, misguided, unlucky... It does not matter the reason. A full 90% of people could have the success that AD has or that I've had or that Doc has. All of us are saying that the fight in a man can exceed the circumstances he starts in if he's willing to do the work it takes. Sure, there are some people born with a silver spoon who only have to avoid suicide to be considered a success; and there are other people orphaned/abused/uneducated who had to claw and fight every inch of the way.
Our point is that there is a path for nearly everyone to go from the gutter to 'success'. But it usually involves a whole lot of sweat equity. And that applies to the real 'average joe'.
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