https://www.zerohedge.com/markets/c...k-due-childcare-crisis-narrative-once-and-all
I have heard this narrative being pushed in MSM more than once.
I have heard this narrative being pushed in MSM more than once.
I'll disagree with you there. The problem you speak of is the bias that occurs during child custody cases. Most judges side with the woman. My brother got custody of his son and his MOTHER was (and still is) strung out on drugs. She gave birth in the bathtub and told no one. We found out a month later that he was a father. She didn't chip in one bit. I lost count of all the women i know that had their children taken by the county AFTER they pushed the man out of the child's life.If the MEN who create the problem were called to do their duty, the question would not have to be asked. Women do raise more children without the AZZ who played DADDY to the situation and have to live without the "MAN" in the house and teach the children to be MEN without a MAN in the house or family.....sadly.
Can understand your point and case. Can't agree with you all the way though. I lost count of how many of my friends married a German girl, took her back to the US and after getting out of the Army, got back into their old group of friends, started drinking, toking, joking and running around. About half of those girls got divorced and came back with the kids or got married to someone else since the dad left them alone...just sad the whole story.I lost count of all the women i know that had their children taken by the county AFTER they pushed the man out of the child's life.
I understand that. Not every guy is a winner. And yes, there is probably a few more men in the POS category than women. My only point was that the issue isn't a clean cut issue of sex. Every situation is different. As for those returning home from war, I'd like to say that many of them come back from a life of being fed, clothed, housed, all for their ability to fight and kill as a team. When they get home, if they do, they are treated with disrespect, medically neglected (including psychologically), turned down for "normal" jobs for a lack of civilian skill, and simply forgotten about. I understand why so many veterans return home and dive straight into the bottle. It is not an excuse, no, but imagine going from having all the support of an entire country and being dependent on the notion of team work ~ just to come home and be expect to single-handedly solve the problems of a household falling apart. You cannot expect physically and emotionally exhausted people ingrained with the notion of teamwork to come home and make everything perfect - essentially on their own (well, they see it that way, housework and raising children is not given the credit it's due, an easy thing to overlook when you eat and poop in the forest with a rifle by your side and blood on your hands). These are wounded men and women, not just physically. Again, every situation is different, and some people are just worthless. I agree with you there. But you cannot use personal experiences, good or bad, to define the majority of people or a specific gender. It is easy to see "how bad" this situation is when the good outcomes resulting from a war-torn family are not often talked about.Can understand your point and case. Can't agree with you all the way though. I lost count of how many of my friends married a German girl, took her back to the US and after getting out of the Army, got back into their old group of friends, started drinking, toking, joking and running around. About half of those girls got divorced and came back with the kids or got married to someone else since the dad left them alone...just sad the whole story.
My parents got divorced when I was 6, mom got re-married when I was 9 and both men were useless as fathers. Had jobs, made money, paid the bills...but were total A-holes with the children. Not one of us 4 ever spoke to them after the second divorce till moms death. She raised us.
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