TexasFreedom
A True Doomsday Prepper
Kate, you are trying to steal someone else's responsibilities. Let me explain.
2 scenarios.
1. "Bob" and "John" are robbing a store you are in with a gun. You don't have a gun, but you try to run and Bob shoots you in the back.
2. "Bob" and "John" are robbing a store I am in, Bob (with the gun) turns his back to me and I pull my CC and shoot him repeatedly killing Bob. I also shoot John twice and he survives (but he is not armed).
Scenario 1. Are you responsible for your bullet wound? Or, will a court charge you with assault? Of course not, that responsibility is not yours. Yes, you have responsibility to care for yourself and recover, but not for the shooting.
Scenario 2. Am I going to be charged with assault/murder? Nope. In fact John can face murder charges for Bob's death. I am not taking away their responsibility for their actions. They started this series of actions and they own the responsibility. I am not going to steal what they own.
It's that simple. I get it if you can't. But it seems you recognize you are at fault here. And that is ok. Not everyone can carry this heavy responsibility.
2 scenarios.
1. "Bob" and "John" are robbing a store you are in with a gun. You don't have a gun, but you try to run and Bob shoots you in the back.
2. "Bob" and "John" are robbing a store I am in, Bob (with the gun) turns his back to me and I pull my CC and shoot him repeatedly killing Bob. I also shoot John twice and he survives (but he is not armed).
Scenario 1. Are you responsible for your bullet wound? Or, will a court charge you with assault? Of course not, that responsibility is not yours. Yes, you have responsibility to care for yourself and recover, but not for the shooting.
Scenario 2. Am I going to be charged with assault/murder? Nope. In fact John can face murder charges for Bob's death. I am not taking away their responsibility for their actions. They started this series of actions and they own the responsibility. I am not going to steal what they own.
It's that simple. I get it if you can't. But it seems you recognize you are at fault here. And that is ok. Not everyone can carry this heavy responsibility.